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William D'Andrea

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    On Tuesday, this past week, I attended two Christmas dining events.

    The first was a Christmas Brunch, which was scheduled to be held in the Community Room of the Monsignor Henry J. Reel Senior Citizen Village, where I am a resident, in the Long Island New York, Community of Medford.  Just a few days before the event, we were notified that due to the endless covid 19 pandemic, what we'd be eating would have to be take out.

    That morning, I went over to the Community Room, where I received a plate full of what we would have been eating, while seated with each other at the tables.  However the food items were covered, and we all had to take the meals back to our rooms, and eat them alone. 

    What I'd been given, I had to reheat in my microwave oven, and I didn't really enjoy it.  The meal consisted of one omelet, with pastries, buns, and a very large crescent roll, and three small oranges.  That was all very starchy, and made me belch-y.

    I've read that there are certain cultures where belching is considered a compliment to the cook.  Here however, in the Senior Citizen Center, I wasn't sure if that's how it would be regarded, so I was glad I was eating alone.

    After that, I fasted from 11 AM to 6PM, when I attended a Christmas Dinner, at the Integrity Church of Yaphank, where I usually Attend Sunday Worship.

    Here, things were different.  We had good, nourishing, full healthy meals.  I had a chicken leg and thigh, corn, and a few other vegetables.

    This was followed by a Worship Service; which was followed by dessert.  I had a full bowl of fruit.  This was all very nourishing.

     What we didn't have, were any women in attendance.   This was a meeting of the Church's men's group.  No women were allowed.  That's something about this particular Church, to which I strongly object.  There are men's groups and women's groups, but no boys and girls together, which is what I would prefer.

    Please don't get the wrong idea.  I am a good boy.  When I smile and say "Hi.", that is the full extent of my intentions. 

    I just would have enjoyed the event a lot more, if I'd have been sitting at a table, with a few friendly, smiling ladies, and their husbands, and kids.  That's how Christmas dinners should be.

    But, I shouldn't be complaining like this.  I should give thanks and praise to the Lord as I always do.  In Jesus Name.  Amen.       

 
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I don't know if you know this yet, but something that helps reheating in a microwave -- particularly bread and pastries. Pull off a strip of paper towel large enough to cover the plate with the food on it. Wet it completely, then squeeze out excess water. Drape it over the plate and heat like usual. It softens the bread and pastries. And, yes, I know neither has to be heated, but boy does it taste fresh and comfy when it is.

As for lack of women. In senior centers, the ratio is distinctively more women then men. last I heard, (which was a couple of decades ago), it was 6 to 1. Back when we were first married, we'd have other singles over for Thanksgiving or Christmas dinner, if they had no family for the holidays. Have you ever considered doing the same? Better yet, "potluck at my place." I like people of all ages, but I love spending an evening with people about my age. After all, we all remember the Beatles, the 1980s World Series, (Phillies won 🤭), and Who Shot JR. (I know. My age isn't quite your age.) I'm thinking it would be fun for you to gather with people around you.

Added bonus: More ladies. 

And I'm not pushing you. Just giving you an idea that may or may not be your cup of tea.

 
I'm glad you were able to go to these events! The first meal sounds...pleasant...haha. But at least you were able to eat. Praise God indeed! 🙂 

 
Given the issues of the age in which we live, a lot of things were not the same in 2020. Some of the events and meals have been held differently this year, however they were held. We should be thankful that the institutions are trying to meet needs and have some semblance of the holiday activities. 

 
    I should not have been complaining about this.  I am now instead, thanking the Lord for all the blessings He provided for all of us who attended the Dinner and Worship on Tuesday night.

    I now ask for prayers that I and every member of the Church, who attends one of tomorrow's Worship Services, will be full blessed by the Lord.  I also ask that everyone who attends the following Sunday's Worship, on the Day after Christmas, will also receive the Lord's full blessings.

    I ask in Jesus Name.  Amen.  

 
I understand how you feel, William. Often our complaints are borne out of disappointment for what we believe things SHOULD be versus how they are. The good news is that your focus returned to the blessings you have, and that is a sign of your good character and walk with Christ. 🙂  

Merry Christmas, sir.

 
The good news is that your focus returned to the blessings you have,  🙂  
Merry Christmas, sir.
     When I arrived at Church this morning, a lady who's also a member there, invited me to her house next Saturday, to share a Christmas morning brunch, with she and her husband.

     I truly am blessed. 

 
Isn't that just the best when God reminds you how much He loves you through our friends, family and community? 😄 

 
Amen, MD! Ditto! So glad the Lord has blessed you with this surprise fellowship just for Christmas! 😃

 
     When I arrived at Church this morning, a lady who's also a member there, invited me to her house next Saturday, to share a Christmas morning brunch, with she and her husband.

     I truly am blessed. 
That's wonderful to hear, William!  God always provides, doesn't He? 🙂

 
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