If my husband and I did not allow God to take over or lives and stop making our own messy decisions in our marriage, we would not be together to this day. Our life would be totally different. Our marriage was full of cheating, lies, stealing, drugs. Because of God we changed. We are not defined by our past. Because of God's Grace, we have been forgiven. We now mentor to other couples struggling through similar situations and host a bi-weekly couples bible study through our church. God allowed us to continue down our path because He knew that it would bring us closer to Him. He had bigger plans for us. We are joyful and blessed.