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JoyfulHelpMeet
06-27-2005, 07:53 PM
This is the first message board for writers I have ever joined. My motive is not just to learn more and find out if I am as "oddballish" as I think I am. The circles we "travel in" are very limited. Many people who have similar beliefs, doctrinally and lifestyle, do not have the time or inclination to put their thoughts, and experiences down in writing. Most of the time I am not at a loss for words or thoughts. Actually I am quite a blabbermouth when I can be anonymous. After getting comfortable with people in face-to-face situations, I'm a real jabberer! LOL Guess it is showing already, eh?

My greatest hinderance to writing is time. We homeschool 5 of our 6 children. The oldest finished this year. Many would think I'd be greatly relieved by having one less child to teach. Actually the opposite is true. My heart is grieved and breaking that one of my little fledgling is leaving the nest just for the day time hours, and I won't be there. I'm afraid I'll miss out on something I should be part of, and precious memories will be all I have one day. Is this what most mom's feel on the first day their little one heads off to school??? Is it multiplied because I've never been separated from them for more than a few hours or days by choice?

Well, anyway...back to writing. I love it. In school I hated it because the teachers would limit the topic so much that I felt boxed in. Many life experiences have given me alot to draw from. When I finally fell in love with writing it was because I started to write love letters to my boyfriend. Writing enabled me to voice what I felt, but was unable to verbalize. I poured my heart and soul into them. He in return wrote back in kind.

When I got married and moved 300 mi. away from home, writing was a lifeline for me. It kept me sane. My only means of socialization, fellowship, was by way of the U.S. Mail. It was nothing for me to write 6,8,10 pages or more to my friends. But all this was fodder to prepare me for writing and encouraging other women in similar situations. Which was the reason why we began our print magazine in January '05.

Thank you for letting me blab on and on. I appreciate anyone who actually reads to the end of this message.

Rebecca
06-28-2005, 12:41 AM
Welcome, JoyfulHelpMeet! It's great to have you here! !thumbsup!

Rebecca

whitehawke
06-28-2005, 01:03 AM
JoyfulHelpMeet
Hi there,
it's great to meet you. This site is full of friendly, helpful people. Come on in and mingle. I look forward to reading some of your work.
Rulan

David Meigs
06-28-2005, 01:08 AM
Hey!

Your gonna like the folks around here!

David

Jules
06-28-2005, 10:14 AM
Hi, JoyfulHelpMeet,

I'm a newbie here also, but I'm enjoying it very much.

And yes, it' s quite normal to cry the 1st day you send your pups off to school, regardless of the age. I homeschooled my son for K & 1st, then when he started 2nd, I was teaching in the same school. I actually ended up being his 5th gr. teacher as well. When it was time for him to go to 6th gr., he and his sister who was entering 3rd at the time, started at a different school. (I was not teaching that year.) So, this was the 1st time I'd left my babes at a school WITHOUT ME being in the building! Aaaauuuuugh! My daughter, who is quite happy-go-lucky, handled it just fine. My son was a little nervous and didn't sleep well the night before. I CRIED ON THE PARKING LOT after I finally left their classrooms. :rolleyes: The good news is that God allowed to substitute quite a bit that year, and then I got hired to teach there the next year.

All that to say that yes, it's normal to be upset when they shove off, regardless of the age or circumstances! (At least it was for me!)

rodojeki
06-28-2005, 10:52 AM
Welcome to you !!!! I have visited your site and loved it....
My sister home schools her two boys plus has a three year old and a six month old....I just returned from a trip to visit with her and her days are filled to the brim....I offered to be her nanny (hehe) but that would defeat her purposes, I do believe.

For eighteen years, I drove my girls to the school on their first day and sat in the parking lot, giving instructions and crying. When my oldest was a senior I told her she could drive herself and she refused.....said we shouldnt break our tradition of the first day of school.....(sweet eh? ). I always encourage moms that whatever they feel is OK......these are our babies, gifts from God that we are called to train up and yes, we must release them to Him ....the "letting go" is not the easy part.....but I am also blessed as I watch my daughters strive to be Godly women and fill their young lives with Him.

If I am not careful, I will be rambling soon.....Welcome again !!!

ellenjames
06-28-2005, 11:04 AM
Welcome JoyfulHelpMeet!

Glad to have you here! Look around the site and join in. There are friendly, helpful people here and they are knowledgeable about writing.

Ellenjames