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lionsforjesus
03-22-2005, 06:51 PM
Not just for writers only but for everyone. This is my newest one of today. I wrote three short essays in a matter of two hours, which is alot. The Holy Spirit is pouring out the blessings of words and I love to share them with all of you. i was writing this on menof the cross.com and I copied and pasted it over here from my journals to this site. Check this out.

We are worse to ourselves than God Is.


How many times a day do you condemn yourself for not thinking you are doing the right thing, judging yourselves as you think God is? Putting God in that position that He is the Lawgiver only and not the God who loves you. I catch myself criticizing myself thinking I am not doing good enough I have to try harder to please God and I forget, He lives within me and it's a gift and there is no work I could do to please Him except love Him. My only stride I think is I should strive more to love Him, just to love Him in everything I do. He does the work through us when He see's we are fit for the task, all we have to do is obey Him. But I always come to that point of being self-conscious and riding my own tale to do better, sometimes putting myself down in the process, being harder on myself than God does. I am a person who wants to have people be proud of me because I lacked it since I was a child. I never had that much encouragement from some of my family members and in certain public schools I attended (another issue). Some adults always told me “that’s stupid” or “ You will never make it that way doing that” etc. So I relate my self-condemnation to that which God has shown me what to work on. You have to allow God to dig deep into your heart and show you yourself. You know the one you yourself are hiding from. The things you really don’t want to look at and easy to ignore. Get the point? Allow Jesus to access that part of your heart just as he said in (Luke 12:36," If your whole body is full of light, having no part dark, the whole body will be full of light, as when the bright shining of a lamp that gives you light.") I am learning this today and trying to memorize this particular verse so when I start to fall back into self-condemning I can remember what Jesus said to me and snap out of my foolishness. It’s like I am shading that part of His light and He bumps me on the head lovingly and says, “Richard, stop beating yourself up and let My Light shine in you. So stop being hard on yourself (Me especially) God is not that hard on you. He just wants you to obey and be a light to the world.



Trust in the Lord with all thine heart; and lean not to your own understanding. In all thy ways acknowledge Him and He shall direct your paths. (Prov.3: 5-6). By Richard White Copy-write 03-22-05)

DrRita
03-23-2005, 10:59 AM
Good thoughts and insight. Give yourself a hug from God! He is far gentler that we give him credit for.


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writefx
03-25-2005, 12:55 PM
Everywhere I look this week I keep reading about the same things. Overdependence. Needing certain reactions from people and if we don't get them it's the end of the world. Giving people power over us yet they have no idea they have been given it. Miscommunication. Beating ourselves up as we've messed up yet again.

God is probably chuckling every time he sees me mutter under my breath when a certain person hasn't responded to my question the 'right' way. Or if he sees me lying in bed in despair because I still can't find this elusive mission that everyone else seems to have except for me. When I am feeling sensible I realise that I am living my mission/calling but at other times I get myself in a right state feeling as if I am missing something.

You wrote that all God wants is for us to love him - not try to ' be someone' yet it seems that everywhere you look people are desperate to be recognised or acknowledged.

I can't imagine a young Mother Teresa thinking -- "What calling will make me world famous and talked about". She just wanted to serve God.

Thanks for letting us share in your essay. Just the sort of commonsense that is needed. I pray that it will speak to all of us that have been ensnared by self-condemnation.

dublinheart
03-25-2005, 01:22 PM
:( I think we all make living for Christ much harder than it has to be. There are enough trials without the junk we heap on ourselves. I enjoyed the essay very much. Lot of insight in it. We need to let God be God and just enjoy His freedom. We have enough trouble being ourselves.
Thanks and keep writing and keep the faith. :cool:

rodojeki
05-08-2005, 11:32 PM
Richard,

I stumbled upon this today as I was cruising through the encouragement forum. Thank you for showing His love and tender heart through this piece. I needed it today. Blessings
to you.

Donna

Joanna L.
05-22-2005, 10:24 PM
Sometimes we are worse to ourselves than God is, but also remember that it is human nature to be easier on ourselves than we should be.

Rosalina
05-22-2005, 11:32 PM
So many of us are hard on ourselves and have a low self image. The media projects an image of beauty and perfection that no one really is. We sometimes compare ourselves to that image. I'm glad God doesn't compare us to that.

srajcic
05-23-2005, 12:24 AM
Once I was busy trying to "improve" upon a pastor's sermon when my Savior smiled at me and reminded me that C+ is still "acceptable." Doesn't have to be A+++, doesn't have to be top 99% percentile. Being a 99% type of person, I found this an amazing revelation. Have a great day.

DearPrudence
07-22-2005, 06:56 PM
God forgives long before we have forgiven ourselves, finding the condeming hand your own is an acute realiztion...when I catch myself doing this, I wonder if I am just a glutton for punishment !!

rugby_angel
07-22-2005, 08:37 PM
God forgives long before we have forgiven ourselves

ditto. it's like the saying goes, "I'm my own worst critic" :rolleyes: There are many days when I have to ask God to give me his eyes before I even look in the mirror, so that when I do, I'll see what he sees and not my insecurities.....instead of seeing a failure, he enables me to see myself as the precious daughter of a loving daddy :)

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Hisart
07-22-2005, 11:13 PM
Our sin nature winks at our sin.
The Righteousness we have been made convicts us of it.
The devil condemns us for it.
God forgives us.
By nature we sweep our sin under the rug.
Then our righteousness throws back the rug and points it out.
The devil then jumps in and condemns us for the sin and trying to hide it.
God points back to the cross and says.
"Deal with it, I have."

God Bless!
Hisart :cool: